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Posted on: March 29, 2008 3:54 am
 

How to Get the Job

First, let me express that my last item was directed at employees who just don't seem to get it.  They wonder why they can't get anywhere or aren't given more hours, etc.  Well, it's because they don't seem to have good work ethic as defined in my list.  If you want to move up at your job or be recognized, those are things employers look for. 

When it comes to hiring, there are also things employers look for.  The first step is the resume.  It should be on 1 page and easy to read.  When I say easy to read, I mean your potential employer should be able to pick out each job, and everything should be aligned.  Different fonts and bullet points will accomplish this.  For instance, I have each of my jobs in italics with my responbilities individualized with bullet points.  This way, anyone looking at it will be able to tell where one job ends and another begins.  Your responsibilites should also be concise.  Assume your interviewer is very busy, and you need to get your point across before they say to hell with it.  Nobody wants to read too much.  Whatever you do, do not put anything on your resume you haven't actually done.  It's ok to exaggerate a little, but you have to be prepared for someone to ask you questions about everything on your resume.  On that note, leave room for questions.  Put in things that will peak someone's interest.  For instance, instead of saying you increased sales by such and such percent by doing such and such, only say you increased the sales without telling how you did it.  This will probably prompt the interviewer to ask you how you did it giving you the opportunity to sell yourself.  Along with the resume comes the cover letter.  This actually isn't necessary unless asked for in an ad.  If it is, make sure you only include things that aren't in your resume.  No point in being redundant, and even better, you get to mention all the other stuff you've accomplished.  You also want to state why you want to work for them, and why you'd be an asset. 

Interviews are tough, no doubt.  The most important thing is to be yourself.  Try to look at it as a conversation between 2 people rather than an interrogation.  Start off with a firm handshake, a smile and eye contact.  Smiling and eye contact is important throughout the interview.  Be honest about everything.  You'll wind up tripping yourself up if you aren't, believe me.  Be prepared to answer why you left every job on your resume.  Also, be prepared to answer why you're looking for work at that point.  If you got terminated, tell them that.  They're going to find out somehow anyway.  It's true, it's illegal for your ex employer to say anything more than you worked there from when to when, but people have ways of finding out.  Besides, the right employer will appreciate your honesty, and that's someone you'd prefer to work for anyway.  The best answer you can give if you were terminated is you made a mistake.  The best answer you can give if you want to leave your current job is that there's no room to grow.  Do not tell anyone you're having a problem with management unless it's really legitimate.  Saying you don't get along doesn't inspire confidence that you have a respect for authority. 

You will inspire confidence if you've researched the company you're applying to.  How better to show how much you want the job than by being able to talk about it.  It shows genuine interest, and it also shows you went out of your way to prepare yourself.  Asking questions also shows your interest.  Now, one thing you don't want to do is take over the interview.  Yes, the idea is for an employer to find out about you, but they don't need your life story, and like I said, it's supposed to be a conversation between 2 people, not yourself.  The whole idea of an interview is to sell yourself as someone who is more competent than anyone else they've interviewed, more motivated and more likely to fit in.  Exude confidence.

As a finishing touch, make sure you get your interviewer's card.  Use it to send a thank you note or email saying you appreciated the time they gave you and how much you enjoyed meeting them.  Bring up specific points you spoke of in the interview to show you listened, and remind them specifically of you since they probably spoke with many others.  Let them know how sincerely interested you are in the job and look forward to hearing from them.  If it's a job you especially want, it's really ok to follow up with a call.  Sometimes, employers get sidetracked, so when you call, you're reminding them of you, a person they might really want, but haven't had a chance to call.  If they tell you they haven't made a decision, take the hint and move on.  They might tell you they hired someone else, so at least you'll know.  Whatever the case, one call doesn't hurt, and might in fact help.  Assertiveness and aggressiveness, to a certain degree, are qualities an employer will appreciate. 

Lastly, understand that the hiring process can usually take up to 2 months in companies.   A lot of places put you through online personality tests as well.  Do not let those stress you out.  Just answer the questions honestly.  Don't second guess yourself wondering what answers they want.  There aren't any.  Those tests are really just to determine that you're not antisocial and/or a sociopath.  If there's a job you especially want that's taking too long, call them up with a fib.  Tell them you've gotten another offer, but you're really interested in them, and you want to make sure you have all your options before you make a decision.  It works, trust me. 

Good luck!

 

Category: General
Posted on: March 27, 2008 9:28 pm
Edited on: March 27, 2008 10:26 pm
 

The Gospel According to Yankeechick

As a manager of people, I have developed a definition of work ethic. Honestly, I use me as a baseline because I've always believed in putting my maximum effort forward to earn my money. That's the way of my generation. The generation younger than me has no clue, not all, but most. You know who you are.

  1. Don't call out unless you have a death in the family, a legit emergency, or you're so sick you can't move. Don't use the death in the family and legit emergency excuses once a month.
  2. Accept the fact that you work for someone else and have to do what they say. If you don't want to follow someone else's rules, go work for yourself.
  3. Work. You're not getting paid to be lazy and screw around.
  4. Arrive at work on time. Be ready to work at that minute.
  5. Respect your co-workers and management. If you have nothing to do, offer them your help.
  6. If you hate your job, you're not forced to be there. Don't bitch and moan. Nobody wants to hear your negativity all the time. It brings everyone else down.
  7. Do your job to the best of your ability, and strive to be better. Status quo won't get you anywhere and going through the motions sucks.
  8. Revenge is not sweet. If your boss pisses you off, have the guts to approach them like an adult. Don't bitch about them behind their back, and threaten to do things like keying their car.
  9. Don't mouth off to your boss and co-workers. You can't expect them to speak to you with respect if you don't do likewise.
10. Gossip is bullshit in the workplace. Wtf is wrong with everyone making an effort to get along?! You're not going to like everyone, let alone be friends, but at least be professional for God's sake.
11. Admit you made a mistake. Don't point the finger at other people. Don't make excuses.
12. Go in at the last minute to help out if you're able.
13. Don't blow smoke up your bosses' ass. They can spot a phony a mile away, believe me. Just makes you come off as a liar, and it'll be difficult for them to trust you.

In order to accomplish the above you need maturity.

Maturity
  1. Don't be a coward. Have the guts to approach your problems and the people who may be involved with them.
  2. Choose your battles. Don't be petty. Yes, you should stand up for yourself and what you believe in, but know when enough's enough.
  3. Have some respect for someone other than yourself.
  4. Be willing to admit you were wrong. Don't deflect blame onto others. Don't make excuses.
  5. Learn from your mistakes. Don't repeat them.
  6. Align yourself with other mature people. Don't succumb to peer pressure.
  7. Know when you're too angry to have a productive conversation with someone. Nothing ever gets solved based on emotion. You can't get your point across. Know when you need to cool off first.
  8. Be logical and rational. Don't expect what just isn't possible.
  9. Accept people as they are. They're not going to behave like you, deal with it. See them for their good qualities.Accept that good qualities don't only apply to you. Change your outlook, not them.
10. Accept yourself as you are, faults and all. Be proud of all of you.
11. Go with the flow. Be flexible.
12. Move on. Don't hold a grudge forever. Forgive.
13. Be generous. Be good to others. Have empathy.
14. See the good in people and situations.
15. Be able to laugh at yourself.
16. Allow yourself to be yourself. Don't pretend to be something you're not to please others.
17. Be true to yourself and your beliefs. Nobody can ever take that away from you.
18. Follow your heart and you'll have no regrets.
19. Be able to see the big picture.

Category: General
Posted on: March 19, 2008 3:29 pm
Edited on: March 20, 2008 11:37 am
 

Music of Your Life

This is inspired by Mom's blog item about scents that remind you of people, places and situations.  Honestly, scents have never really done it for me.  I'm not saying I want anyone to smell bad and I certainly remember certain ones, but my memories are triggered more by specific songs.  I also equate certain times in my life with certain songs.  For instance, when I was younger and didn't know what the hell I wanted to do with my life it was Joe Jackson's, "You Can't Get What You Want 'Til You Know What You Want."  Then, when I did finally start following a path which seemed right, I still wasn't satisfied, so it was The Rolling Stones', "You Can't Always Get What You Want," "but if you try sometimes, you get what you need".....you all know the rest.  When I did finally get settled in my place in life, it was Desiree's, "You Gotta Be."

As for certain situations that occurred, well, I of course broke up with someone when Sinead O'Connor's, "Nothing Compares 2 U" came out.  I'll never forget sitting at my job before we opened watching the video on TV, goddamn her.  I think every woman will admit to feeling as though they could beat any breakup by listening to Gloria Gaynor's, "I Will Survive."  Then, there are the love songs I link to specific men who've been in my life like Bryan Adams', "Still Feels Like the First Time," and I designated Matchbox 20's, "When You're Gone" to a crush I once had.  Mostly, it was what was playing on the radio while I thought about whoever as I drove.  As for the perfect sex song, to me it's, "Damn, I Wish I Was Your Lover."  I have no idea who sings it, but does it really matter?  No.  The perfect wedding song?  None other than Etta James', "At Last."  Runner up goes to Gladys Knight's, "You're the Best Thing that Ever Happened to Me." 

So, I put it out there to all of you.  What might you call your theme song presently and in the past?  What songs remind you of your first time, your first date, your first love, etc?  Do they inspire happiness or enough pain to make you want to hurl something at the radio?  I've never done that and never will because every memory and experience makes you who you are and need to be held onto. 

Category: General
Tags: Music
Posted on: March 16, 2008 7:08 pm
Edited on: March 30, 2008 11:05 pm